Alice O’Hara Purcell

September 26, 1921 - October 23, 2014
Alice O’Hara Purcell

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Alice O’Hara Purcell, 93, a bright light of Lake Renaissance, Wilmington NC, passed away on October 23, 2014.

Alice was born in New York City, NY on September 26, 1921 to the late Michael O’Hara and Nora Sheehan O’Hara. She moved to Stamford CT at an early age and spent most of her life there. She graduated from Stamford High School and Short’s Secretarial School. She married Tom Purcell, who she first met in Junior High, in 1942 during World War II.

Being a young married woman in 1942, Alice could only stand by as her young husband went off to war. Tom ended up in Germany fighting in the Battle of the Bulge and was eventually taken prisoner of war by the Germans. Back in the USA, with an infant child and a telegram indicating he was missing in action, one can only imagine the strength she had to summon and the fears she had to endure. The grit and determination she found as a young bride was evident throughout her life.

Tom safely returned from the service in 1945 and together they happily raised their growing family of four children. The family moved to Cortland NY in 1961 and spent 10 years there before returning to Stamford. Alice had a career later in life as Executive Secretary to the Chairman of the Board of Union Trust Bank. When Alice and Tom retired about 20 years ago they relocated to Wilmington NC to enjoy the weather and the golfing.

Alice was preceded in death by her husband of 59 years, Tom Purcell, and is survived by one son, Thomas I. Purcell (Clare) of Stamford CT and three daughters, Barbara P. Burke of Wilmington NC with whom she made her home, Cathy P. Mitchell (Michael) of Heathrow, FL, and Lynn Purcell of Wilmington NC. She also leaves five grandchildren, Amy Hinzmann (Michael) of Hope Mills, NC, Heather Walger of Wilmington NC, Ryan Mitchell (Ashley) of Maitland, FL, Emily Purcell of Wilmington, NC, and Maura Purcell of Charlottesville VA. Seven great-grandchildren also survive her, Casey Lynn Purcell of Leland, NC, Jordan Tracey of Hope Mills, NC, Ava, Madeline and Dane Walger, all of Wilmington, NC and Carson and Maclaine Mitchell of Maitland FL.

She is also survived by several nephews and nieces, as well as many cousins across the US and in Ireland, close friends, loving caregivers, irreplaceable neighbors and fond acquaintances.

We will all miss her feistiness tempered with her Irish wit, piercing blue eyes and ever-ready smile. A devout Catholic and member of Immaculate Conception parish for over 20 years, her generosity, kindnesses and friendliness knew no boundaries. She was an inspiration to everyone that met her. There will never be another Alice…..

A memorial mass will be held 9 AM Tuesday October 28, 2014 at Immaculate Conception Church.

A vigil will begin at 8 AM at the church.

Memorial contributions can be made to Lower Cape Fear Hospice or Immaculate Conception Church Building Fund.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, 1535 S. 41st Street, Wilmington, NC 28403. 910.791.9099


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  • October 25, 2014
    PETER M VORVIS says:
    PLEASE ACCEPT MY CONDOLENCES.MANY FOND MEMORIES ANDOVER RD. AS A SMALL BOY MAYBE TEN YEARS OLD I THOUGHT YOUR MOM WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN I EVER SAW. MY WARM REGARDS TO ALL. WITH LOVE PETER VORVIS.

  • October 25, 2014
    Mark and Mary Lou Mitchell says:
    Sorry to hear of your loss, but know you were good to your Mother and she is at peace now with your Dad4

  • October 25, 2014
    Cynthia Clarke says:
    Dear Barb,Lynn, Cathy, Tom and Family, I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. You were blessed to have Alice in your lives for a good long time. May the good memories remain. All my love, Cindy