Aloise Maria Muller

May 6, 1934 - August 17, 2022
Aloise Maria Muller

Memorial Gifts & Donations

Aloise Maria Muller, age 88 of New Bern, NC and formally Smithtown, NY, went to be with the Lord on Wednesday, Aug 17, 2022. She was born in Hagenbach, Germany on May 6, 1934, daughter of Albert and Maria Zaucker. Also born that same year, in the same town, was Ernst Muller who immigrated to America in 1954. Aloise would follow and marry Ernst three years later, the love of her life.

She is survived by her husband, Ernst Muller of 65 years, her daughter Diana Wade and husband Dana, seven grandchildren, Jenny Cox and husband Liam, David Gunderson, Justin Wade and husband Anthony, Amanda Nelson and husband John, Cory Wade and wife Anna, Timothy Popko and Jonathan Popko. Six great-grandchildren, Emeline, Logan and Penny Cox, Aloise, Augustin and Magdalen Wade, Carson and Parker Wade, and Noah Nelson.

She was preceded in death by her daughters Christa Muller Gunderson and Helga Muller Napolitano, her brother Werner Zaucker, and her parents.

Aloise’s joy was family, and she loved to cook for them. She was an amazing hostess and cook who always welcomed people into her home, a home filled with her beautiful flower gardens, another favorite pastime. Her other passion was helping people who suffered from addiction, and over the years she helped many people to gain back their lives, counseling and just being a good friend. Ernst and Aloise’s connection to their extended family in Germany was strong, and they visited Hagenbach frequently over the years, and also passed down those connections to the next generations.

A Catholic Mass will be held for Aloise on August 22, 2022 at the Basilica of St. Mary, Wilmington at 11:00am. Burial will be in New Bern, NC at St. Joseph Cemetery at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Aloise’s honor to the Alzheimer’s Association at

Share memories and condolences by clicking on the “Tributes” tab below.

Wilmington Funeral & Cremation 1535 S. 41st Street Wilmington, NC 28403 910.791.9099.

Tribute Wall

Please feel free to sign the guestbook or share a memory

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

  • August 21, 2022
    Bill Napolitano says:
    Good Bless! May you reunite with your two beautiful daughters Helga and Christa. Look down on your family and protect them. With love, Bill

  • August 20, 2022
    Alison and Rudy Rupe and family says:
    We love you ! Because of you I am living a life today beyond my dreams. In my heart forever ! Hugs and love to Ernie , Diana and Dana and so many beautiful family members that loved her so much

  • August 20, 2022
    Alison and Rudy Rupe and family lit a candle:
    Lit since August 20, 2022 at 8:57:44 PM

  • August 20, 2022
    Ludwine u. Bernd Knies lit a candle:
    Lit since August 20, 2022 at 8:49:45 AM

  • August 20, 2022
    Domehl Elly lit a candle:
    Lit since August 20, 2022 at 8:48:49 AM