Elbert “Ray” Murray

April 27, 1936 - March 2, 2017
Elbert “Ray” Murray

Elbert “Ray” Murray passed away Thursday, March 2, 2017. He was born April 27, 1936 in Wake County NC.

His parents were Elbert Lee and Lizzy Mae Murray; brothers: Charles and Ronnie (deceased); sisters: Rachel (deceased), Vernell, Judy, Jo Ann, Brenda and Portica.

He met Leona Bailey in 1958 and was married on October 4, 1958. They were married for 58 years.

“Ray” leaves behind five children: Betty, Ray, Sammie (Tammy), Ricky, Rob (Christy); thirteen grandchildren: Lindsey, Donald, Anderia, James, Stephen, Whitney, Wayne, Brittani, Brooke, Amanda (David), Josiah, and Melissa. Also, nine great-grandchildren: Amy, Hanna Rae, William, Hunter, Rachel, Weston, Logan, Miriah and Morgan.

Dad was a crane operator for 50 years. As a crane operator he built many things, such as, sea walls, jetties, and bridges in North Carolina, Virginia, South Carolina and Georgia.

He went shrimping at Tar Landing for many years.

After retiring for a second time, he began his hobby of building bird houses, as well as other structures such as, cabins with fireplaces, a church, a fort, a horse ranch and a bridge.

He loved the Lord and attended The Church of God on Middle Sound Loop Road in Wilmington, NC.

He will be greatly missed by a lot of people.

The family wishes to thank Dr. Peter Manolukus and the staff at New Hanover Regional Medical Center – Ogden for the many years they took care of him. The family also wishes to thank the 7th, 8th and 10th floor staff at New Hanover Regional Medical Center. Last but not least, the family also wants to thank Lower Cape Fear Hospice LifeCareCenter staff for there care and compassion they have shown to Ray and the family.

A memorial service is planned for Saturday, March 4, 2017 2 pm located at The Church of God, 246 Middle Sound Loop Road, Wilmington NC 28411.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests for donations to be made to the American Diabetes Association by clicking on TMCfunding.com.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation 1535 S. 41st Street Wilmington NC 28403 910.791.9099


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