Eloise Griffith Stoddard

December 27, 1921 - September 10, 2014
Eloise Griffith Stoddard


I, Eloise Griffith Hoffman Stoddard of Leland, NC went home to be with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Tuesday, September 10, 2014. I was born in Utica, NY on December 27, 1921, the daughter of Robert and Nellie Jennings Griffith, the oldest child of ten children. I attended school in New Hartford, NY and at the age of 15 went to an evangelistic service with my mother where I met my future husband, Howard John Hoffman. We continued our friendship and were married in February 1939. I am survived by my sister Elizabeth Harris (Frank) of Utica, three brothers: Gordon Griffith (BettyJane) of New Hartford, Gerald Griffith (Jackie) of Canada/FL, Roger Griffith (Beryl) of Sauquoit and predeceased by one sister Shirley Croasmun (John) and three brothers, Robert Griffith (Carmella), William Griffith, Raymond Griffith, Richard Griffith.

I leave my four children: Paul Richard Hoffman (Betty) of Clendennin, WV, Howard John Hoffman Jr. (Jeab) of Coraopolis, PA, Gary Wayne Hoffman (Carmen) of Huntington Beach, CA, Barbara Jean (Pugliese Graham) Grabowski (Bill) of Leland, NC with whom I resided until my death. My husband Howard Sr. went to be with Jesus on October 29, 1980. I remarried September 12, 1981 to Edward H. Stoddard in New York Mills. Ed went to be with Jesus February 23, 1998. We lived in Ocala, FL together for 18 years and I a total of 26 years. I also leave Ed’s daughters (and they became my daughters) Sandy Spartaro Akatay (Tan) of Hanover, MA and Suzanne Stoddard (deceased 2011.)

I was blessed with 13 grandchildren: Paul’s children: Bryon Hoffman (Joelle), Scott Hoffman (deceased 1980), Michelle Collis (Dave), Paul Hoffman (Robin); Jack’s children: Lisa Hoffman, Gregory Hoffman, Peter Hoffman (Katie); Gary’s son: William Hoffman; Barbara’s children: Misty Pugliese Paige, Holly Pugliese McNamarra (Mike); Sandy’s children: Mark Spataro, Matthew Spataro. I was also blessed with 19 great-grandchildren: Julia, Chloe, Katie, David, Benjamin, Samuel, Ashley, Kristie, Ruby Jean, Emily, Sean, Aidan, Scott, Rachel, Jenna, Joshua, Brooke, Nicole, Brayden and 3 great-great grandchildren: Eliana, Jamie, Benjamin.
During WW2 I worked at Rome Air Depot and then worked and retired from General Electric. I taught Sunday School, Vacation Bible School, member of Women’s Ministry, volunteered Hospice and Ed and I volunteered with Interfaith to feed the homeless in Ocala, FL. I attended First Baptist Church and Closer Walk Church in Leland, NC.

Written by Eloise G. Stoddard.

A graveside service will be held in Clinton, NY with my family and friends, 11AM October, 4, 2014 at Crown Hill Cemetery, 3620 State Route 12, Clinton, NY 13323. The family requests in lieu of flowers a donation may be made to your local Hospice or Billy Graham Evangelical Association,1 Billy Graham Parkway, Charlotte, NC 28201-0001 or BillyGraham.org. Contact Barbara at [email protected] for further info, questions or comments.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation Village Road Chapel, 325 Village Road, Leland, NC 28451 910-383-3511.


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  • September 14, 2014
    Dolores Melita says:
    She will always be in my heart. My sympathies to the family.

  • September 14, 2014
    ELIZABETH G. HARRIS says:
    IT IS SO HARD TO LOOSE A LOVED ONE, BUT I THANK GOD THAT SHE KNEW AND LOVED HER SAVIOUR GOD. SO GLAD I WAS A PART OF HER LIFE AND WILL GREATLY MISS TALKING WITH HER. SHE WAS MY LAST SISTER TO GO TO BE WITH GOD AND THEN I AM NEXT IN LINE. BARBARA, GARY, JACKIE, AND PAUL-------LOVE ALL OF YOU AND KNOW THAT GOD CAN COMFORT YOU IN THIS TIME OF LOSS. MEMORIES ARE ALL WE HAVE TO HOLD ON TO NOW AND THEY ARE WONDERFUL. LOVE IN CHRIST

  • September 22, 2014
    Ken Kostolecki says:
    I do not know what to say because I have not seen Eloise in many years....except that she was a beautiful, God-loving person---as I grew up in my teen-age years and got to know her and Howard. The Lord now has a place for her---and all of us who hope to be with the Lord, and hear Him say, "Well done, my faithful servant.

  • September 23, 2014
    Roberta Basford says:
    I first met Ellie and Ed in 1991 in Ocala,we were neighbors in Ft.Douglas park,she was a wonderful person and I'm glad I had the pleasure of knowing both her and Ed.

  • September 12, 2014
    Jane Crowder says:
    Please accept our condolences is the passing of Eloise. She was a delightful person and was an example of a true lady. She is now rejoicing with the angles and dancing in the clouds. Our love is with you all. John and John Crowder