Grant Thomas Wiedmeier

July 30, 2003 - May 8, 2021
Grant Thomas Wiedmeier

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With deepest sorrow, we announce that Grant Thomas Wiedmeier, 17, of Wilmington, died May 8, 2021 as a result of a motor vehicle accident.

He was born in Boise, Idaho on July 30, 2003, the son of Kirk and Meagan (Alexander) Wiedmeier. He was a senior at Topsail High School. Those who knew him, for even a short time, knew what an amazing and unforgettable young man he was. He was an incredible son, amazing big brother, fierce protector of those he loved, loyal friend and hard worker. He never met a stranger, and he would quickly smile and make a friend of you upon meeting, and you would be a friend for life. He wore his heart on his sleeve and was one of the kindest souls ever to walk the Earth. He had a hilarious sense of humor and could get a room going with one of his impeccably placed one-liners. He was always willing to help anyone in need, and you could count on him to be there and give the shirt off his back. Boise was always his home and he had a huge network of friends and family there. He loved the BSU Broncos and was a fan for life. He had recently moved to Wilmington and had finally found his niche. He had a fantastic group of friends who really helped him feel like this was his home and a place where he fit in. He was an amazing cook and loved to try new foods. He was also an accomplished woodworker and made many beautiful projects including a magnificent mahogany swing as his senior project. He had a love of the outdoors and was a true sportsman. Any chance he had to go hunting or fishing, you could count him in. One of the proudest moments for him was bagging his first wild boar this fall.

He is survived by his parents, Kirk and Meagan Wiedmeier; his sister, Katie, and brother, Fletcher. He also leaves his maternal grandparents, Jim and Susan Alexander; and paternal grandparents, Del and Sue Wiedmeier. He also leaves many aunts, uncles, cousins and relatives.

The celebration of life memorial will be at 2pm Saturday, May 15, 2021 outdoors in the grassy area next to Scott’s Hill Baptist Church, 185 Scott’s Hill Loop Rd, Wilmington, NC 28411. Please bring your camping chair, wear your camo, and bring your duck calls so we can celebrate Grant’s life “Grant Style.”

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider a donation to the family’s go fund me: gf.me/u/zsuvms. There will be envelopes at the service and the family asks that at any time you have memories of Grant that you please send them along as they will be helpful in the difficult coming months.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, 11535 S. 41st Street, Wilmington NC 28403
910.791.9099

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  • May 24, 2021
    Angela Bryant says:
    Dear Family: Grant and my son Andrew hit it off right away in Cary. They communicated everyday for the past two years. My son only now learned what happened as he knew something wasn't right when he missed his daily check-in. As a parent, my heart aches for you and your other children and other family as well. My child shared in your tears as I sit here with him now to console him. Grant is loved. Grant IS love. There's not enough to be said, but please know our hearts and thoughts are with you in prayer.--Andrew Johnson & Angela Bryant

  • May 24, 2021
    Aidan Baron says:
    Went to West Cary middle with him for a year but he was always nice and always was in a good mood, We were never that close but he was an amazing person sad to see someone like him go. May he rest in Peace

  • May 24, 2021
    Nicolás Martínez Paz says:
    Grant was a great friend we would drive around all day having a good time I will never forget those times we would do nothing and have a great time I miss you i will pay my respects as soon as I come home.

  • May 24, 2021
    Paco Rodriguez says:
    I met Grant at Green Hope High School. He was an awesome kid. I had English with him and we used to mess around all the time. We had mutual friends and kind of lost contact after he moved to the Beach. I only just heard about this and I’m heartbroken. I have a lot of very good memories with your son. may he Rest In Peace.

  • May 17, 2021
    Abby Jones says:
    I had the pleasure of meeting Grant and his beautiful family at the dentist office. Following his initial appointment, we had a long conversation about Scotts Hill (as I grew up there), Topsail High School (we shared a few of the same teachers) and hunting. I wanted to book a flight to Idaho by the end of our conversation. I was so struck by his great manners, intellect and maturity that I sent his mom a text before he could leave the office. Our days are concluded by a huddle and the opportunity to individually speak about something great that happened that day. I excitedly announced "Meeting Grant!" Not surprisingly, my doctor chimed in exclaiming "Hey, that was mine!" Subsequent visits were just as enjoyable. We will miss his beautiful smile, charisma and kindness. He now has an aerial view of his favorite hunting spots and can see those big bucks back in Boise. Continued prayers to each of you during this difficult time.