James H. Farlow, Jr.

April 12, 1979 - May 23, 2017
James H. Farlow, Jr.


James (Jay) Hopkins Farlow Jr. of Wilmington, NC, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, May 23, 2017 at the age of 38. Jay is survived by his parents James and Paula Farlow, his sister Jamie Mayo and husband Ace, all of Wrightsville Beach, his sister Lydia Meadows and husband Travis of Wilmington, and sister Redding Soderberg and husband Tom of Myrtle Beach, as well as five nieces and nephews whose faces lit up on his arrival.

Upon graduation from John T. Hoggard High School, Jay attended Appalachian State University in Boone. He was known for his welcoming smile, which would light up a room. Jay had a huge love for music, always singing or humming his new favorite tune. His creative talents included violinist, guitarist, singer, dancer, actor, and he could really jam on the harmonica.

Family and friends will gather at Wrightsville Beach Park amphitheater on Saturday, June 3, 2017 at 6:30 PM to celebrate Jay’s life with music and remembrance. Bring a chair or a blanket, and of course, a smile.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Fellowship Hall P.O. Box 13890 Greensboro, NC 27415. 336.621.3381

Wilmington Funeral & Cremation 1535 S. 41st Street, Wilmington, NC 28403 910-791-9099.


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  • June 01, 2017
    Pat Walker says:
    Paula and Jim So Sorry to hear about Jay. My best wishes and prayers to the family.

  • June 01, 2017
    Jo Aycock says:
    Our family grew up knowing the Farlows through Suzuki violin with Lorraine Westermark in Wilmington. What a sweet and loving family ! We are so sorry and pray that Heavenly Father will bless you all with love and comfort.

  • June 01, 2017
    Kenneth and Pat Barnes says:
    Jim and Paula, we are so sorry to hear about Jay. Our hearts go out to you. Please know you are in our thoughts.

  • June 01, 2017
    Kenneth and Pat Barnes says:
    Jim and Paula, we are so sorry to hear of you loss. Please know you are in our thoughts.

  • June 01, 2017
    Susan DeGroote says:
    Dear Paula, Jim and the whole Farlow Family, we are so, so sorry to hear about Jay. Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Fondly, Susan and Doug