James J. Urban

October 31, 1934 - September 2, 2013
James J. Urban


James J. Urban, 78, of Leland, N.C., died Monday, September 2, 2013, at Lower Cape Fear Hospice & Life Care Center, Bolivia, NC after a lengthy battle with the effects of Parkinson Disease plus associated Dementia.

The son of the late George and Helen Williams Urban, Jim was born October 31, 1934 in Cleveland, Ohio and grew up in the Cleveland suburb of South Euclid where his father served as Mayor for 24 years. As a boy, he learned the use of tools from his grandfather, a general contractor, and put that knowledge to work building Soap Box Derby racers 4 years in a row, winning the Kiwanis sponsored race in South Euclid in 1948. Later he played varsity football, was in the concert band, and, with seven friends, organized the Twilite Canteen to provide weekend recreation for fellow students of Brush High School.

Jim was a graduate of Ohio Wesleyan University where he was a member of Delta Tau Delta fraternity and served as President of Theta Alpha Phi dramatics honorary during his senior year. There he also met his future wife, Lois Augden.

Following graduation he was employed as a research assistant by Cleveland Metropolitan Services Commission for a year prior to receiving active duty orders from the USAF. He and Lois married and spent the next three years in eastern France where Jim served as Postal Officer for five US air bases. He remained in the AFRes for five more years, resigning his commission as a Captain in 1966.
Upon his return from France he became actively involved in downtown development in the city of Cleveland, joining the staff of the Cleveland Development Foundation during the period of the early development of the Erieview Plan for revitalization. He left his position as Executive Vice President of the foundation in 1966 to become Associate Director of the Greater Cleveland Growth Board in charge of the Downtown Division which, at the time, included planning for the development of Cleveland State University.

In 1971 he left the public sector to become involved in private construction with firms in Florida, Michigan, and the USVI. While in St. Thomas he formed his own company to complete housing developments on both St. Croix and St. Thomas which had been started by a then defunct company. In the islands he also developed a passion for sailing, competing in ocean racing with his Cal 2-27 out of the St. Thomas Yacht Club.

Returning to the mainland in 1981, he spent the next 25 years in Charlotte, NC doing residential construction, sales and property management through Jim Urban Development, Jim Urban Builders, and Jim Urban Realty. He was active in the Charlotte Home Builders Association and served as Chairman of SPPACE (Shelter Providers Political Action Committee) in 1989. Retirement brought him to the Wilmington area in 2007 where he renewed his interest in sailing as long as his health permitted.

Jim leaves to honor his memory his wife of 55 years, Lois, and sons, Keith Urban of Charlotte, NC and Todd Urban of Indianapolis, IN. Also surviving are his sisters, JoAnn Taylor (Tom) of Mesa, AZ and Alice Glady (Fred, deceased) of Lyndhurst, OH; brothers, Mark (Caroline) of Lakewood, OH and Tom (Marc Samuels) of Millsboro, DE; thirteen nieces and nephews and many great nieces and nephews.

The family wishes to express sincere appreciation to all the dedicated caregivers who have provided assistance to Jim during the past year for their compassionate care and loving support.

A time of remembrance for family and friends is planned for a later time.

Memorials may be made in Jim’s name to Lower Cape Fear Hospice, 1414 Physicians Drive, Wilmington, NC 28401; Parkinson Research Foundation, 5969 Cattleridge Blvd., Ste. 100, Sarasota, FL 34232; Team Pastore Foundation (Marked specifically for: The Wilmington Area Parkinson and Lewy Body Dementia Support Group Fund), c/o Sandy Wessells, 7107 Orchard Trace, Wilmington, NC 28409; or a charity of your choice.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, Village Road Chapel, 525 Village Rd., Leland, NC 28451 910.383.3511


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  • September 25, 2013
    Aimee Parker says:
    He lead a wonderful life, I know you will miss him.

  • September 08, 2013
    Pat Scott says:
    Lois, I am so impressed with Jim's obituary. I never got to meet him, and we haven't talked much together over the years, but it seems you got to share so many experiences in your years together. His suffering is ended, and that is comforting. But your loss is painful. I wish for you much support from your family and friends now,and in time many joyous remembrances of your life together which give you peace. Love, Pat

  • September 03, 2013
    Carol Hobson says:
    Lois, I am so deeply sorry to learn of Jim's passing. He was always such a lovely person and a joy to be around. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Carol Hobson, Formerly of Jon Ludwig's office

  • September 09, 2013
    Susan Dellinger says:
    Lois, I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He was always such a kind man to talk to. Our entire family aches for your loss and will be lifting you up in prayer in the days and months ahead. Praise God that he is now at peace and may God now bring you peace and comfort. With love and care; The Pressler Family and The Dellinger Family

  • September 19, 2013
    Claire Jospitre says:
    Dear Lois, Keith & Todd: May you have the strength by virtue of God who imparts power to us, to deal with the loss of your beloved James. (Philippians 4:13) Weeping is normal, even the perfect man Jesus gave way to tears when his friend Lazarus died. God is called the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation. (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4) The Bible discloses that it is Jehovah God’s purpose to restore the Paradise on earth. Then, the human family will have the prospect of enjoying life without end, free from all problems, accidents, sickness, disease, and death. He also revealed that righteous and unrighteous ones will be resurrected. (Psalm 37:11, 29; Acts 24:15; Revelation 21:4) Until that day comes, when we are plagued with grief and loneliness, God invites us to rely on him. In Isaiah 51:12 he said: "I myself am the One that is comforting you people.” May these few scriptures bring you emotional support.