John R. Lackey, Jr.

July 4, 1933 - January 24, 2010
John R. Lackey, Jr.

John Roy Lackey, Jr.  July 4, 1933 – January 24, 2010 Resident of Oak Island, North Carolina.

After 76 wonderful years loving his family, serving his country, and inspiring a multitude of students whom he taught and loved, John passed away peacefully on Sunday at the Lower Cape Fear Hospice & LifeCareCenter in Wilmington, North Carolina. John was born in Statesville, North Carolina. He graduated from Lee Edwards High School in 1951 and immediately entered the United States Marine Corps serving as a Staff Sergeant in Korea and also in the Reserves. John entered Mars Hill College receiving degrees in Business and Music. He taught band at Mars Hill High School and Marshall High School before moving to Morehead High School. Later he spent a year teaching music at Lee Edwards High School before moving to his home at Enka High School and Middle School where he was a beloved band director from 1967 until 1995. He also taught at South Brunswick Middle School and Myrtle Grove Middle School in Wilmington.

John was preceded in death by his parents John Roy Lackey, Sr. and Mildred Sherrill Lackey of Asheville, North Carolina and his brother Frank Lackey of Louden, Tennessee. He is survived by Dale Johnson Lackey his beloved wife for over 53 years. John is also survived by brothers EA Lackey and Tom Lackey of Weaverville, North Carolina, and sister Barbara Lackey Russell of Rancho Santa Margarita, California. He will forever be remembered by his daughters Julie Lynn Lackey Ledford of Etowah, North Carolina, Jennifer Lee Lackey of Oak Island, North Carolina, Amy Beth Lackey of Seattle, Washington, Lara Ann Lackey Mashburn of Melbourne, Florida, honorary daughters Susie Wilburn and Natasha Gardner; treasured grandchildren James Scott Ledford, John Wesley Ledford, Megan Elizabeth Ledford, Lucy Jane Dickinson, Cole Alexander Mashburn, and Sean Grayson Mashburn; caring sons-in-law, Gerald Ledford and Travis Mashburn; sisters-in-law, Judy Williams, Daryl Barneycastle, Vickie Burke, and brother-in-law, Van Johnson; and numerous other relatives, including , Lisa Williams, Paul Hobbes, Elke Williams-Hobbes, Wendy Justice, Scott Lackey, Courtney Lackey-Bingham, Patricia Gage, Shelley Emery and Kip Lackey, along with countless family, friends and students who were blessed to know him.

While at Enka High School, John led a multitude of award winning bands, and created the Land of the Sky Marching Band Festival. Later, he founded the Land of the Sky Symphonic Band in Asheville, North Carolina. John was the first recipient of the Western North Carolina Bandmasters Award of Excellence and also received the Outstanding Alumni Award from Mars Hill College. He taught Sunday School at Weaverville United Methodist Church in Weaverville, North Carolina and later at Ocean View United Methodist Churchon Oak Island, North Carolina. Over the years he faithfully performed Taps for numerous military services in Western North Carolina and throughout Brunswick County. John loved listening to music, playing his trumpet, gardening, and being with his family. He was blessed to have over 44 years to share his unending passion for music with his dedicated students. He was an amazing son, husband, father, brother and friend who touched the lives of everyone with his pure heart, beautiful blue eyes, generosity and genuine kindness for all.

Friends and family are invited to attend an Open House at John and Dale’s home located at 168 NW 9th Street, Oak Island, North Carolina on Friday, January 29th between 4:00 and 8:00pm. A Memorial Service will be held at Ocean View United Methodist Church located at 8400 East Oak Island Drive, Oak Island, North Carolina on Saturday, January 30th at 2:00 in the afternoon.

In lieu of flowers, the family request donations be sent to the wonderful people who gave such loving care for John in his time of need to the Safe Passages Tributes at The Lower Cape Fear Hospice Foundation, 1414 Physicians Drive, Wilmington, North Carolina 28401 or Ocean View United Methodist Church Building Fund, 8400 East Oak Island Drive, Oak Island, North Carolina 28465.

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  • January 26, 2010
    Julie Canty Sloup says:
    My son, Tim, was fortunate to begin his instruction in band by playing trombone with Mr. Lackey at SBMS. He was always inspirational and motivated the students to do their very best. I have a fond memory of the two of them playing the National Anthem together before an event at the middle school. Such a wonderful man will truly be missed.

  • January 26, 2010
    Mollie Ashe Scott says:
    I have such good memories of riding in Mr. Lackey's truck while Amy and I hurriedly put on our makeup on the way to high school. I spent many a night in the Lackey house as a teenager. Thinking of all of you and praying for you as well.

  • January 26, 2010
    Patricia Carland Patton says:
    I'm sorry to hear of Mr. Lackey's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mr. Lackey was such an inspiration to all of us. Being a former student of the EHS band was a wonderful experience, he would always make us laugh and work us so hard because he knew that we could do alot better than what we were doing. I will always have great memories of him, because he and my father (Max Carland) were the creators of the Land of Sky Marching Band Festival. Mr. Lackey touched so many people in his teaching and will be missed dearly. May God be with you and your family in this time of need. Patricia Carland Patton

  • January 26, 2010
    Gail Dean Grant says:
    To the Lackey family, I just want you to know how saddened I am to hear of Mr. Lackey's passing. He was such a wonderful man. I took six years of band under his direction, and am very blessed to have known him. I can picture him standing in front of the band, arms crossed, with his baton in his hand. He was such an inspiration to so many of us!!!! You are in my thoughts and prayers. Enka High Class of 1975

  • January 26, 2010
    Lolita Roberson Pilkington says:
    To all his family and friends, You have my deepest heart felt sympathy. Mr Lackey was a wonderful man and teacher. I had the pleasure of being one of his students at Enka Middle and High from 1974-1983. His was my favorite teacher and such a caring, warm hearted man. I will never forget his lucky jump and all the wonderful times we had under his care. My life was truely touched by him and I will remember him fondly. Again I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you in your time of need. My prayers are with you all.