Ned R. Lavengood Sr.

December 30, 1928 - December 29, 2016
Ned R. Lavengood Sr.


Ned R. Lavengood, Sr. passed away on December 29th at Lower Cape Fear Hospice in Wilmington, NC.  He was born in Wabash, Indiana on December 30, 1928.  He was a veteran of the Korean War, 1951 to 1953 [101st Airborne].

He attended Cincinnati Conservatory of Music where he studied trumpet and conducting.  He graduated from International Business College in accounting, got his BS from Indiana University and his MBA at New York University.

He considered himself an entrepreneur, involved in many types of business ventures in New York, Chicago and North Carolina.  Among them, he was particularly proud of being a member of the Million Dollar Roundtable at Metropolitan Life in NYC, and his work with Keyes Fiber, where he was Midwest Regional Sales Manager.  He was more recently co-owner of Sibyl’s Antiques and Collectables with his wife, Sibyl Lavengood.  He was an avid Heisey Glass collector and served as President of the NC Heisey Glass Collectors.  He also served on the board of the National Heisey Collectors of America.

His church was always an important part of his life.  He was ordained an Elder and sang in the choir at Park Avenue Christian Church in New York City, and served as Elder and choir member in Downer’s Grove Christian Church in Illinois and First Christian Church in Wilson, NC.  He was Elder Emeritus at First Christian Church in Wilmington, NC.  He was appointed to and served as trustee on the Board of the Disciples Divinity House at the University of Chicago for over 30 years.

A Mason for over 60 years he last month received his Diamond Jubilee pin from St. Johns Lodge #1 where he has been a member. He also played trumpet in the Sudan Temple Shrine Band for many years and was extremely proud of being a bugler for the American Legion, including Local Post 10.

He was a great believer in volunteer work.  He felt you should leave a community better off than when you arrived.  “Put more in than you take out!”  In New York, he was Secretary of the Tri Faith Housing Authority, President of the Gramercy Town and Village Lions Club and night mayor every Wednesday night for Mayor Lindsay.  In Chicago, he was President of Toastmasters International, and started the first group home for boys in DuPage County.  In Wilson, NC he played French Horn in the Wilson Brass Band, and started a program to feed the homeless.    In Wilmington, he was involved with the Salvation Army Band, volunteered at Rachel Freeman Elementary School, was a Guardian Ad Litem, and a tutor at the Cape Fear Literacy Council.  He and Sibyl were founding members of the Parents Council at UNC Chapel Hill and UNC Wilmington, where they served as Co-Presidents.

He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Sibyl McCulloch Lavengood, his daughter Traci Lavengood Gemmell, her husband Nole, and grandchildren Carson and Callie Gemmell, of Roseville, CA and his son Ned Jr., his wife Melissa and grandchildren Liza and Levi Lavengood of Wilmington, NC.  He is also survived by his nephews Don Bussard and wife Linda, of Sebring, FL, Terry Bussard and wife Elaine and Kim Bussard and wife Lani of Warsaw, IN.  He was pre-deceased by his sister, Betty Lou Bussard of Warsaw, Indiana.

A memorial service will be held Friday, January 6th, 11:00 am, at First Christian Church, 2035 Oleander Dr, Wilmington, NC 28403, with a reception following in the social hall.  The family will receive visitors at that time.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to First Christian Church or Lower Cape Fear Hospice.

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  • January 01, 2017
    Bobbie Taylo says:
    One could say that the love of Heisey brought the Taylos and Lavengoods together. Our daughter, Karen, became a Heisey collector and a member of the NC Study Group and through her we met the Lavengoods. Wonderful couple! We will miss seeing Ned. Sibyl, take care.

  • January 01, 2017
    Sherron and Junior Thiry says:
    Ned has been a dear friend since our families met thirty four years ago in Norwalk, Connecticut. We have many good memories of his kindness, good humor and hospitality. Our lives have been enriched by Ned's friendship. We will miss you !

  • January 01, 2017
    Douglas Thiry says:
    Growing up as neighbors and close friends of the Lavengoods leaves me with many fond memories including great pancake breakfasts on Saturday mornings, Boy Scout camping trips and of course, morning reveille by our very own bugler. Tons of fun. I think Ned was the first Army Vet I met and I am sure he influenced my personal decision to join the military, in search of that daily bugle call! From a Marine to a Soldier, “Fair Winds and Following Seas” and god bless your wonderful family.

  • January 02, 2017
    R. Faust says:
    In memory of Mr. Lavengood, please accept my sincere condolence to Mrs. Lavengood, children and family members. He certainly touched many lives and will be thought of often. Family, may your many wonderful memories bring you the peace of our great God of comfort and hearer of prayers. (2 Corinthians 1:3,4; Psalm 65:2) My thoughts will continue to be with all of you.

  • January 02, 2017
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