Pamela Jean Spears

October 22, 1956 - August 9, 2013
Pamela Jean Spears

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Pamela Jean “Pam” Spears, 56, of Wilmington, passed away Friday, August 9, 2013 at her home.

Born in St. Paul, MN, she was a daughter of the late Theodore Richard and Henrietta Klien Spears. Pam loved spending time with her children and grandchildren, and also enjoyed gardening and traveling.

Surviving, are her husband, Almon D. Bennett, Jr. of the home; two daughters, Tiffany Mishoe (Adam) of Wilmington; Vinay Pridgen (Patrick) of St. Louis, MO; grandchildren, Moracey, Hayden, Casey Luigi; two brothers, three sisters, and her dog Queenie.

A memorial service was held by the family on Tuesday, August 13, 2013.

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  • August 18, 2013
    butch and karen says:
    would like to send you guys our condolences......sorry for your loss and just know shes in heaven looking down on all of us and watching over until we all meet again... we love you guys butch and karen

  • August 16, 2013
    Josh Garrett says:
    So very sorry for your loss. I will be keeping Vinay, Patrick, and the rest of the family in my thoughts and prayers, asking for peace in this time of sadness. Much love your way!

  • August 16, 2013
    Jennifer (Curle) Oakes says:
    I knew Ms. Pam through her daughter, Vinay, whom was my best friend all through middle school. I spent many days & nights with them growing up! I can not count how many memories I have of her, but I will always remember her long GOLD nails, always done to perfection, & her soft & loving voice <3 You will forever live on in our memories!

  • August 16, 2013
    Holly Hildebrant says:
    Tiff and Vinay I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish I had known sooner, I would have done everything in my power to come down and be with you :'( Love you guys!

  • August 16, 2013
    Torri Titus says:
    Words cannot describe the feelings this woman has left with everyone. All we can do now is cherish all of the great memories shared with Pam & her family. She has always excepted me as a part of her family inviting me to picnics, having sleep overs with Tiffy, decorating for Halloween & Christmas, & calling her "Ma". My heart hurts for her girls and I will miss her spunky personality, but I know she has raised some beautiful children that carry on all of that greatness. You are loved & missed Ma, hug my family up there for me <3