Pat Anderson Mulvey

September 20, 1938 - July 3, 2020
Pat Anderson Mulvey

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Pat Anderson Mulvey, age 81 passed away peacefully on Friday, July 3rd, 2020. He fought a valiant fight against three cancers.

Pat was born on September 20, 1938, in Houston, Texas, the son of the late Elmer Anderson and Martha Mulvey and called Wilmington, NC his home. He is also preceded in death by his oldest son Danny Mulvey.

He served his country in the US Army as a translator in Germany. After his time in the service, he worked for IBM. He earned his degree from the University of Houston. While working for IBM he was assigned to NASA on the Apollo Program. After he retired he became a dedicated and a lifetime member of Elks Lodge BPO #532. He served in many positions with the lodge. Pat loved music and a good hand of cards.

Surviving are his loving wife of 43 years, Betty Mulvey of Wilmington, NC; son Kevin Gregory of English Mountain, TN; daughter Lisa Koger of Wilmington, NC; daughter Christine Casselli of Fort Worth, TX; six loving grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.

Friends and family are invited to attend a memorial service on Saturday, August 1, 2020 beginning at 11:00am at the Wilmingon Elks Lodge at 5102 Oleander Drive, Wilmington, NC 28403.

The family wishes to extend our heartfelt gratitude to Lower Cape Fear LifeCare for all of the loving care we received. In loving memory of Pat donations to Lower Cape Fear LifeCare may be made at

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  • July 08, 2020
    Daniel Icenhour says:
    I thought I would be able to see you one last time but had this dreadful feeling that wasn’t true. You declined faster than expected and even when I left I thought I’d be able to make it there in time. But that’s I’m glad your suffering has came to an end. I wanted to write you letter long ago to let you know that I think have developed so well because of the example you set. I didn’t get to see you one last time, but I’m glad I was able to speak to you one last time and tell you I love you and thank you for everything. Throughout my life you were the one man I had the outmost respect for. You got me into superhero movies when we saw the very first x-men movie together when I would come every summer to visit. After that, you always took me to see the new superhero movies every summer and those were my favorite times. You were overall a very quiet man but those times were quality and I thoroughly enjoyed them. After I enlisted we bonded more because we were able to relate more to each other. You were the male role model that I thrived to be. You were very successful and took care of my mother and grandmother, and I could always just see how enthralled and in love with you my grandmother was. As I grew older I learned about the depth of your taste in music...especially Pink Floyd, which I found to be another mystery to the dynamic of your personality. Through my eyes you took care of your family, treated everyone with respect, and at your core just a good person. I really wish you could’ve came to my graduation at USF but I know I made you proud. Just knowing you I kind of picked up on your work ethics or what I thought it was and incorporated it into mine. From our very last conversation, I promise you I will not stop my pursuit and will stop at nothing short of greatness. I appreciate you setting example of how to work hard and take care of your family. I never felt any judgement from you or Grandma and always felt safe in that regard. I appreciate that. I love you Grandfather, and I hope I could make you as proud of me as I am proud of you being my Grandfather. RIP Pat Mulvey.

  • July 09, 2020
    Lisa Koger says:
    Beyond selfishly dad passed away tonight, after a valiant fight against 3 different types of cancers!!!! He was so strong and filled with hope until this past Tuesday. He was my step-father but the best father I could ever want. He and my mom were soulmates and he was the example of how a true man should love a women. He spoiled my mom....we would joke he loved her so much he ruined her but that wasn't true. She spoiled/ruined him The unconditional love, loyalty and respect they both showed one another for over 40 years together taught me, made me grow up and most of all to appreciate the people that true love you!!!!! Pat Mulvey thank you for being my dad and tonight wasn't goodbye; it is see you later. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!! AND GOD KNOWS HOW MISSED YOU ALREADY ARE. I LOVE YOU!!!!!!

  • July 13, 2020
    Jerry and Gloria Brown says:
    Dear Betty and family, We were sadden to hear of your loss; Pat was a great guy and he will always be aces in our book.

  • July 14, 2020
    Jeffrey and Nancy Hand lit a candle:
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