Philip Charles Smith, Jr.

September 14, 1922 - August 27, 2021
Philip Charles Smith, Jr.

Philip Charles Smith Jr., 98, died Friday, August 27, 2021 at Lower Cape Fear LifeCare in Wilmington, N.C.

He was born Sept. 14, 1922, in Akron, Ohio, to the late Philip Charles Smith Sr. and Elizabeth Meyer Smith.

He was a graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, Md. and served for 20 years as an aviator, navigator and educator. During his career he flew all over the world, as well as serving as a hurricane hunter, flying into storms to record meteorological data. Among his many military honors, he was initiated into the Ancient Order of the Deep of the Domain of Neptunus Rex and the Not So Ancient Order of the Hurriphooners.

Following his retirement as a lieutenant commander from the Navy, he earned a master’s degree in library science from Florida State University and served as a university librarian at Methodist College in Fayetteville, N.C. and at the University of North Carolina at Wilmington. After his retirement from UNCW, he loved to regale anyone who would spend time on his porch sharing stories about his adventures in the Navy. He liked a glass of rum every evening, sometimes not bothering to wait until the sun went below the yardarm.

He was devoted to his wife of nearly 60 years until her passing, and loved their many adventures and special moments together. He was fiercely proud of his family, and lived independently and actively until his final days, although in his later years he had to give up his regular swims in the intracoastal waterway in front of his house.

Often cantankerous but kind-hearted, open-minded but opinionated, strong but gentle, exasperating yet eternally curious and inquisitive, he would engage in conversation with anyone he met, wanting to learn about them as a person rather than as a waitress, nurse, repair person, college student or child.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Laura Oates Smith. He is survived by three children: Philip Charles Smith III and wife Charlotte of Dahlonega, GA, Laura Melinda Jones and husband Bruce of Seattle, WA, and Timothy M. Smith and wife Freda of Boone, NC; three grandchildren, Jonathan Smith and wife Laura of Alpharetta, GA, Larson Smith of Boone, and Kelsey Smith of Blowing Rock; two great grandchildren, Peter and Mallory Smith of Alpharetta; two step-grandchildren, Stephen Jones and wife Jane of Olympia, WA, and Marc Jones of Seattle, WA; one step-great grandchild, Barrett Jones of Olympia, WA.

Inurnment will be held at the U.S. Naval Academy Columbarium in Annapolis, MD, at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Lower Cape Fear LifeCare at 1414 Physicians Drive, Wilmington, NC 28401, or Coastal Land Trust, 3 Pine Valley Dr., Wilmington, NC 28412.


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  • August 30, 2021
    Ed and Bobbi Wooten ~ Lexington, NC says:
    "Mr. Phil" was our son's neighbor at Final Landing. We were honored to meet him and heard many wonderful stories about his interesting life. God speed, Mr. Smith. Yours was a life well lived.

  • September 01, 2021
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  • September 07, 2021
    Janice says:
    So many great memories on that porch!! Phil always made myself, and my family and friends, feel welcome and important. I treasure the times and will hold them in my heart forever. Safe journey Phil.

  • November 09, 2021
    Leon Rooks says:
    To the Smith Family, it is with great sadness to learn of the passing of Philip C Smith, USN (Ret). A member of SENCLAND MOAA, Wilmington, NC. We extend to the family our deepest condolences to the family during this difficult time. SENCLAND MOAA Wilmington, NC