Ronald Hervey Lafond

March 15, 1942 - March 23, 2020
Ronald Hervey Lafond

Ronald Hervey Lafond of Wilmington passed away from complications of pancreatic cancer on Monday, March 23,2020 at his home in Autumn Hall, Wilmington, NC, with family by his side. He is survived by his wife Ursula, daughter Shari Thompson, son Ron and his husband Mike, grandsons Jackson and Alexander Thompson, brother Lawrence and his wife Claudette of Salem, NH, sister Diane and her husband Bill O’Brien of Hypoluxo, FL, and several nieces and nephews.

Ron was born on March 15, 1942, in Lawrence, Massachusetts, and attended local schools before graduating from then Lowell Technological Institute (now UMass-Lowell) in 1963 with a B.S. in Industrial Management. He later received his MBA from Golden Gate University in 1974. He entered the US Air Force in 1964 and completed a 23-year aviation career that included flying C-130, C-141c and C5A aircraft as an aircrew navigator. In 1968-69 he flew Tactical Airlift missions in Vietnam and received several Air Commendation medals. During this time flying in and out of the Vietnam theater, Ron met and began dating Ursula, and they married on June 2, 1973, at Travis Air Force Base, Fairfield, CA.

His last flying assignment was with the Blue Tail Flies of the 435th Tactical Airlift Wing, Rhein-Main Air Base, Germany, in the early 1980s. He then completed several assignments at the Pentagon retiring at the rank of Lieutenant Colonel in 1987. His second career was spent working for the US Army in aviation and acquisition positions as a contractor at the Pentagon and Huntsville, AL, supporting the Apache Attack Helicopter program.

Ron and his family moved to Wilmington in 2007 to be closer to their daughter and grandsons. He was heavily involved in Wilmington sports activities over the last 10 years including Wilmington senior softball and YMCA basketball, and participated in two National Senior games in men’s softball receiving gold medals with his teams in 2011 and last year in Albuquerque, NM. Ron served on several residential Homeowners’ Associations including Autumn Hall, where he was known as “the unofficial Mayor”. He also volunteered his time with the New Hanover Board of Elections for over ten years as a precinct judge and one-stop voting official and worked for the New Hanover County tax office’s Board of Equalization and Review.

Given the unprecedented circumstances of these uncertain times, Wilmington Funeral and Cremation will post your condolences online at in lieu of a viewing.
The following services will be held at a later date:
• A Memorial Mass will be held at St. Mark Catholic Church, Eastwood Road, Wilmington; and
• Interment with Full Military Honors will occur at Arlington National Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, please consider sending memorial contributions to the following organizations that support causes that were dear to Ron:
• – helping military families;
• – supporting children with advanced cancers and other medical needs; and
• – supporting pets and animals.

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  • March 26, 2020
    Susanne & family says:
    We feel so sorry and it so hard to leave such a beloved person. As Ursel’s young cousin I admired Ron when I was a child. He was so impressive and had a good humor. We know what a pain it is since we lost our mother. We embrace everybody and our thoughts are with you, Susanne + Achim + Jascha + Luca

  • March 26, 2020
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  • March 27, 2020
    Joe Ferraro says:
    My deepest sympathies to Ron's family. I had the pleasure of playing softball ball with Ron. He always brought his A-Game and competitive spirit. He will be missed.

  • March 25, 2020
    Bob Perry says:
    Dear Ursula and Family, I lost my wife Judy just one month ago to pancreatic cancer. I know how difficult this is for you. I share your grief and hope that you can take consolation in having many wonderful memories of your lives together. I played softball with Ron since the day he entered the senior league, for many years on the same team. I enjoyed his competitive spirit and his personality. I often also saw you at St. Mark Catholic Church. I remember Ron walking to morning Mass and refusing a ride because he liked the exercise. We know that we will be together with our loved one again but in the interim there is a hole in our hearts and we try to fill it with the memories we loved of them. God bless you.

  • March 27, 2020
    Tom and Susan says:
    Dear Ursula, Words cannot convey our feelings for you and your family at your loss. Our thoughts are with you during these very trying times.