Sharon Lind Mallyon Sebastian

February 15, 1942 - May 22, 2013
Sharon Lind Mallyon Sebastian

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In God’s grace, Sharon Lind Mallyon Sebastian, 71 years old, of Ocean Trail Healthcare Center, Southport, North Carolina, passed away on Wednesday, May 22, 2013 after a long struggle with Parkinson’s Disease at the Lower Cape Fear Hospice & LifeCareCenter in Bolivia, North Carolina.

The family will be receiving friends from 6-8 p.m. on Friday, May 24th at Wilmington Funeral Chapel.

Sharon was born in Los Angeles, California to Marvin Richard and Jeanette Lois Butterfield Mallyon on February 15, 1942. The eldest of three, she was the apple of her father’s eye. She was raised in Downey and Lancaster, California. Fond of musicals, singing and children, Sharon dreamed of traveling and becoming a governess one day. She was a graduate of Antelope Valley High School in Lancaster, California.

Meeting her husband Johnnie at the Antelope Valley Skating Rink in 1962, the two were married on November 3, 1963 at Roosevelt Community Church in Lancaster, California. And began their newlywed life together.
They lived their married life between Lancaster and Sacramento, California and Salisbury and Wilmington, North Carolina. In addition to working as a homemaker, Sharon worked for the phone company, Wool-Co, Dorothy’s Ruffled Originals and Walmart.

Sharon’s greatest achievement was about to become her… a mother. Sharon nurtured three children that she adored her entire life. Subsequently, she reaped the joys of becoming a grandmother and a great-grandmother.

Sharon always enjoyed making holidays special for her family, whether she was decorating, singing a carol or baking up a storm. Sharon and Johnnie loved vacationing in the North Carolina mountains after their children were grown.

Sharon was preceded in death by her husband Johnnie Calvin Sebastian, her parents Marvin Richard Mallyon, Jeanette Lois Butterfield Mallyon Wright, and her brother Richard Charles Mallyon.

Sharon is survived by her favorite child Valerie Lind Sebastian Mitchell of Leland, also by her favorite child, Debra Jean Sebastian of Leland, and finally her favorite child, John Richard Sebastian and wife Morgan Saltmarsh Sebastian of Elizabethtown, NC.

She is also survived by her grandchildren James Edward Mitchell, II of Wilmington, Sharon Lind Mitchell of Ackworth, GA, Heather Renae Sebastian of Wilmington, Sara Jessica Sebastian (Grandma’s girl) and fiance’ Kenneth Ray Suggs, Jr. of Wilmington, and Terry Dean Haynie, Jr. of Wilmington, also by her great-grandchildren Skyla Haven Burnett of Wilmington, Erika Lynn Parks of Wilmington, Justin James Laughter of Leland, Larry Carter Burnett of Leland and Aubrie Nicole Suggs of Wilmington, who will miss their “GG.”

Sharon is also survived by her beloved sister Claudette Mallyon Silva and husband Philip Silva of Fresno, California and her dearest cousin DeDe and husband Reggie Barnes of Carolina Beach, in addition to many other extended family members, friends and loved ones.

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  • May 24, 2013
    Peggy Taylor says:
    Sorry for your loss Val and Debbie. I know she will greatly missed by everyone who knew her. My heart goes out to the entire family

  • May 23, 2013
    Julia Mallyon says:
    I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed hearing stories of Rick's childhood, many of which included Sharon. It was very special when I met her 8 years ago just before Ricks passing. I know Rick was very touched to see his sister one last time. I hope with time your hearts heal and memories of your mother will make you smile once again. All my love, Julia

  • July 18, 2016
    Colleen Meyer says:
    I apologize that this isn't simply a condolence, though I am sorry for your loss, but I ran across a DVD entitled "Family Memories", and after research, the names line up and it seems to be of your family (the Sebastian, Cole, and Mallyon families). If I'm wrong, I apologize, but if you would like this dvd, please contact me at bambam4jc@yahoo.com. Blessings.