Timothy Wayne Cayton

September 6, 1953 - August 24, 2018
Timothy Wayne Cayton


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” Here’s The Deal ”
Timothy Wayne Cayton of Wilmington was born September 6, 1953 and he died on Friday, August 24, 2018.

Tim was the son of the late Wilma Stevens Cayton and Elwin Thomas Cayton.

Thank God he is set free at last from his struggles with ALS.

Tim was married to Sandra in 1974 together they have 4 girls Kim Beck (Gene), Kelly Hammond, Shannon Reaves (Brian) and Claudia Gardner (Ronnie). Grandchildren: Kalynn, Andrew, Tiffany, Alicia, Hollie, Heidi, Luke, Taylor, Adrienne, Hunter (Taylor), Fisher, Spencer (Carlee), Trenton, Grayson and Daniel.

Great Grandchildren: Tucker, Brooklynn, Riley, Amani, Isabella, Trey, Ava, Lexi, Ethan, Stella and one on the way.

Also left to cherish his memory are his siblings Thomas, Todd, Cindy and Toby. His brother Terry predeceased him.

Tim was the owner of Cayton’s Well-drilling and Pump Service for many years.

” Truth of the Matter Is ” Tim was many things to many people, imparting knowledge to everyone.

He was an engineer, a teacher, a mentor, the Captain of his crew. ” The Timinator ” had a brilliant mind.

He loved Jesus, hunting, fishing, racing and boating.

Tim was a member of Myrtle Grove Presbyterian Church, The Maco Hunting Club and the NRA.
In his absence
We have to ” say it like we mean it ” and ” Man Up Now “.

Tim wants to be remembered 1st as a man of God saved by Grace who loved his family and friends more than anything in this world.

Our family expresses gratitude to MGPC, the ALS foundation and the wonderful staff of Lower Cape Fear Hospice. All Glory Be to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. The Captain has left the plane and will be waiting on US in Glory.

Please consider making a memorial contribution to ALS Foundation for Life www.tmcfunding.com.
Join us for a visitation on Monday evening from 5-7pm at Wilmington Funeral Chapel 1535 S. 41st Street, Wilmington, NC. Funeral service will be held Tuesday 2pm at Myrtle Grove Presbyterian Church 800 Piner Road, Wilmington, NC with graveside committal to follow at Greenlawn Memorial Park.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, 1535 S. 41st Street, Wilmington NC 28403 910.791.9099

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  • August 25, 2018
    Ricky Meeks lit a candle:
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  • August 25, 2018
    Marsha Kanapaux says:
    Timmy was my brother-in-law. He had a kind and giving heart. He would help anyone that passed his way. He will be missed. My prayers are with my sister, Sandra, and their immediate family.

  • August 25, 2018
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  • August 25, 2018
    Janet Hedrick says:
    I'm so sorry about you loss. I know you will have a great big void and I send love your way.

  • August 26, 2018
    Bobby and Susie Odham says:
    We thought so much of Timmy and his humor was contagious. You will be missed

  • August 26, 2018
    Caroline Hines says:
    Sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers for you and your family.

  • August 26, 2018
    Lesia roberts says:
    Shannon and family, I’m so sorry for your loss prayer for healing and comfort for you all

  • August 26, 2018
    Larry & Sandra Skipper says:
    Our thoughts and prayers to Sandra and the family. Timmy may be gone but never forgotten. God bless.

  • August 27, 2018
    Beverly (BB) Newton says:
    My brother-in-law was a smart, kind and gentle man. He and Kevin are talking up a storm. Loved him and love and prayers to the family.

  • August 27, 2018
    James Holdford says:
    Keeping you in thought and in prayer. A good neighbor and family. God bless.

  • August 27, 2018
    Bobby and Billie Ann Shelton says:
    Love you, Timmy. Good memories from the neighborhood!

  • August 27, 2018
    Bobby and Dora Morgan says:
    Tim was a very smart man, a great neighbor, and friend. We know he is resting in heaven. He has finished his race!

  • August 28, 2018
    April says:
    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in the scripture at Acts 24:15. This is what our God Jehovah promises for us. And we can look forward to what is written in Psalm 37:9-11 and 29.

  • August 29, 2018
    Trudy Nowell says:
    Dear Cayton family, I am so sorry to have read of the recent death of your loved one Tim from ALS. A very dear friend of mine died years ago from this ALS. Please accept my most sincere condolences. May you find the comfort from the Scriptures at John 5:28,29 where Jehovah God promises a resurrection of our loved ones through his son Christ Jesus. And then the wonderful hope in the near future to the end of all the causes for our sufferings including sickness and death promised at Revelation 21:3-5. When I've lost loved ones these Scriptures have comforted me as I hope they will help your family also. In your time of need may God's loving arms surround your family during this most difficult time of your lives. Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss.