Wendy Elaine Uberpakker

June 25, 1973 - December 29, 2020
Wendy Elaine Uberpakker

Wendy Elaine Uberpakker, age 47, of Castle Hayne, passed away on Tuesday, December 29, 2020, at UNC Hospital at Chapel Hill.

She was born in Wilmington on June 25, 1973, the daughter of David Sheeley and Shirley Squires Lane.

Wendy was a Certified Nursing Assistant in the Healthcare industry.

She was preceded in death by her husband Jeffrey Uberpakker; mother Shirley Squires Lane and brother Jason Glennon. She is survived by her father David Shelley and step father Ronald Lane.

Wendy was a mother, sister, aunt and best friend to many people. She had a heart of gold and would help anyone. She will be missed by many but in our Hearts Forever.

A Service will be held at 2:00pm on Saturday, January 23, 2021, at Beach Community Church in Carolina Beach.

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Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, 1535 S.41st Street Wilmington, NC 28403. 910.791.9099.


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  • January 07, 2021
    Mari Mulkins says:
    Gonna miss you. You was wonderful to work with very special lady. God new he needed another good angel so he took one of the best ladies I knew. Love you

  • January 12, 2021
    Kit says:
    Omg Wendy... I am in shock. Fly high up there with Jeffery! You spread lots of love. You will be missed.

  • January 13, 2021
    Sherrie Causey says:
    Wendy,I've never had a friend like you, I will truly love and miss you always I have a life full of memories

  • January 13, 2021
    Millie Stephenson says:
    Wendy you will be truly missed.Say hey to my brother,I'm sure he and Jeff welcome you.I will never forget you my friend ❤

  • January 13, 2021
    Millie Stephenson says:
    Wendy you will be truly missed.I will never forget you. Say hey to my brother and Jeff!